This is genuinely one of the most debated things in the LOA community.
So let me break it down.
Living in the end. Embodying the state. Deciding.
That's sitting back in a chair and receiving.
You're already there. Nothing to get to, nothing to convince. You just... take it. You sit back and let it come to you.
Affirming is more like jumping in the car and driving toward your destination.
There's movement. There's action. There's repetition.
And here's why both work.
Sitting in the chair works because you're operating from a place of total assumption. You've already decided. The receiving is automatic.
Affirming works because the repetition rewires your beliefs until they match the state you want. You're literally talking yourself into a new normal.
Same destination. Different roads.
Some people naturally click into a state just by deciding. Others need the repetition of affirming to get their mind to actually believe it.
Neither is wrong. It just depends on what lands for you.
The goal either way is the same thing - being the person who already has it. 🩵
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You've embodied the state. You've affirmed. You've done the work.
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